Loving Myself, Building My Future (Part 1)

October 2, 2011

As I sat at Toast Box in Kuala Lumpur, the nostalgic ambience brought back fond memories of yester-years. I spent a lazy morning taking a trip back to my childhood days in my mind. I saw myself standing at the junction of Kent Road and Rangoon Road once again, looking at my old house. This […]

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Releasing From Mental Prisons (Part 3)

October 2, 2011

The solution for releasing myself from the mind comes also from the mind. Our Creator has designed our mind to have a tremendous power for capturing information and analyzing them. It has the ability to reason things and create a perpetual flow of ideas and concepts. While it is one of the most powerful tools, […]

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Learn Or Die

October 1, 2011

He was droning on and on. Meanwhile, the temperature of my frustration was on the increase. I had paid a lot of money to attend the course. The lecturer was supposed to be a well-educated person and a successful practitioner. However, on the very first day of the training, he was literally reading from the […]

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Leveraging On Major Changes

October 1, 2011

I bought my first property during one of the most challenging times. The economy was down and the market sluggish. The property was a rundown shophouse and required major renovation and repair. To make matters worse, there was a long-term tenancy agreement in place and the returns were inequitable. It was located at ‘Little India’ […]

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Releasing From Mental Prisons (Part 2)

September 30, 2011

The scariest prison is not made of walls and bars. It is the prison of the mind. If a person cannot exercise freedom in his mind, he is not free – no matter how much he can travel and what he can do. When he denies reality, he pronounces a life sentence on himself. When […]

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A Short Love Story That Shouldn’t Be Missed

September 30, 2011

After years of famine, Ah Seng finally turned to his newly-wedded wife and said, “Let’s sell everything we have and sail to Nanyang and start a new life.” Ah Seng and Siew Lian travelled in a Chinese Junk with barely enough food and only seating room space. They battered stormy weather and giant waves with […]

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Releasing From Mental Prisons (Part 1)

September 29, 2011

Have you been strongly condemned before? I’m sure you have. Many people carry these condemnations – whether from external sources or within themselves – as baggages throughout their lives. It weighs them down and prevent them from soaring in life. In 1973, one of my teachers, in a fit of anger, told a group of […]

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Remembering My Primary School (Part 3)

September 29, 2011

Whenever I think of my Primary School, my mind will wander back to the beautiful times I had after school hours. As the school was within walking distance from my house, I spent most of my afternoons around the school compound. In those days, there were no electronic toys – they virtually did not exist. […]

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Unleashing Freedom Of The Mind

September 28, 2011

The time was way past midnight. There were many things I needed to do and deadlines to meet. The workload has become somewhat overwhelming. Even after I have finished my work and called it a night, my heart was heavy laden – not from unfinished task but from remnants of stress and strain. That’s when […]

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Optimising Performance (Part 7)

September 28, 2011

According to Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, there are ten factors that form part of the flow state. 1.       Goals There must be clear goals. These goals must be in alignment with your capacity and competence to achieve it. You must feel that you have to stretch and improve your skill set to achieve the goals. 2.       Concentration […]

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