It’s Time To Love Yourself.

by Patrick Liew on August 19, 2019

It’s Time To Love Yourself.

Every person is a special edition of one.

There is no additional you – no pirate copy, nor will there ever be a perfect clone of you.

There is not a single person in the whole wide world like you.

Nobody shares the same space, time, energy and resources.

No one can think, speak and act like you.

The greatest scientists in the world cannot develop anything that is remotely similar to you.

The best of computers cannot perform like your brain, emotion, and your bodily systems.

All the latest advancements in medical and life sciences cannot replicate the workings in your mind, soul, and spirit.

Nobody will ever be able to explain to you about you and what made you the person that you are.

No one throughout the passage of time have suffered similar pain or enjoyed similar pleasure as you.

You and you alone have undergone many unique and precious experiences in life.

You are a walking miracle.

You are one of the greatest blessings that has happened and will ever happen in your life.

Nothing should ever make you think negatively about yourself and cause you to love less of yourself.

Nobody can stop you from living a life of love and loving the best of life.

You are created with a unique personality, capacity and set of abilities.

Given a tremendous amount of opportunities to tap on your latent energy to make a positive difference to others.

As you travel on the journey of life, what you have gone through has helped you to learn many invaluable lessons.

These assets can value-add to your life and to others.

The lessons that you have learned can be used to help make our world a better home.

There is a special space under the sun for you.

Like stars, you can bring light into many dark corners in life.

Do so much more for the people and the world around you.

There is no better time to be alive than right here, right now.

You can enjoy luxuries that many kings and tycoons in the past could never imagine, let alone enjoy.

With your finger tips, you can access more information than many of the wisest humans that came before you.

Leverage on more sophisticated resources than those that are available to some of the greatest leaders that have ever walked on planet Earth.

There is no better time in history to do whatever you want to do, enjoy whatever you want to enjoy, and achieve whatever you want to achieve.

You can create a world that has never existed before.

A world that you have been longing for and one that will pave the way for a brighter future.

You have everything it takes to turn that new world in your mind into a reality.

Whether you soar or sink in life, it depends on one of the most powerful gifts that our Creator has given to you – the gift of choice.

Whatever happened in your life might not be the best.

However, you can choose to make the best of whatever has happened.

You may not be able to change the situation.

However, you can change your response to it.

Rise about the situation and determine its purpose, meaning and significance in your life.

In the same way, you may not be able to change your past.

However, you have a choice not to allow the past to shape or condemn your life.

You may not be able to change past experiences but you can always draw valuable lessons from them to build a brighter future.

Free to decide what you want to do with the life ahead of you.

The choice is entirely up to you.

Loving yourself is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself.

There is nobody in the world that can be a better you than you.

Nobody can love you more than you can love yourself.

Therefore, it does not make sense to be someone else other than yourself.

You need to accept yourself for who you are and in whatever situation you’re in.

There is not a single person that can make you feel less than what you’re worth without your approval.

You hold the key to the gates of your heart and only you can allow others to strengthen or weaken it.

You deserve the highest level of self-love.

You have every reason to treat yourself well and with respect, affection, and care and concern.

Love your own companionship and be comfortable with your own being, the only home that you carry with you throughout your life.

Learn how to befriend yourself unconditionally.

Engage yourself in positive self-talk and fan the flame of love as you continue the ongoing love affair with yourself.

Seek to be the best coach, counsellor and cheerleader to yourself.

Love both the good as well as what can be improved in your life.

Love yourself despite all your fears, frailties and failures.

It includes loving the past and even the darkest moments in your life.

The more you love your past, the more you can enjoy the present.

And the more you love the present, the more you can build on it for a brighter future.

When you can even love your shortcomings, the past will have no negative power over you.

It can never haunt you for a single second.

As a result, you will be in a better position to love yourself.

And be more empowered to love others too.

Do not doubt for a moment that you cannot love yourself.

All that you need to do is to remove the blockages that you have consciously or unconsciously set up to prevent yourself from being in love and tapping on love.

Ultimately, self-love should draw you closer to our Creator and lead you to be a blessing to yourself and to others.

Without self-love, you can’t even start on the path of satisfaction, success and significance.

It’s the fuel for inspiration, action and contribution.


I hope this message will find a place in your heart.

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